5 signs you’re a control-freak in a relationship

Relationships are based on mutual understanding and thrive on the idea of communication and compatibility. However, many people tend to forget these basic mantras in their relationship and switch to other toxic behaviours to govern their bond with their partners. Wanting to perfect one’s life through engagement and dialogue is one thing, but controlling your partner and always telling them what to do is a sign of a bad partnership. While some do it with complete knowledge, others tend to be unaware of their actions.

Therefore, to help you recognize these behavioral patterns, here are 5 signs of a controlling partner, you may identify with.

01/ They’re always trying to tell you what to do

Giving advice is one thing, but making sure you follow them is a sign of a controlling partner. If you have a controlling partner, they’ll probably always tell you what to do and criticize you for taking their advice initially and doing otherwise. While maybe it’s out of care, but if they’re adamant to make you do what they want, then probably all they care about is being obeyed.

02/ They make decisions for you

Many times, it just so happens that you’re stuck at a crossroad, unable to make decisions for yourself. But that does not give your partner the liberty to decide for you. The choices you make and the consequences that follow are all yours to deal with. No one, not even your partner, has the right to make these choices for you.

03/ They try to control the kind of friends you have

Unlike partners, friends just happen. It doesn’t take many dates to click with friends, instead, it’s a matter of vibing together on similar interests. Therefore, if your partner chooses your friends for you or tells you to distance yourself from your existing friends, then they’re surely trying to control you.

04/ They want you to live up to their expectations

Everyone has expectations in a relationship, but if your partner wants you to live up to it, then it can be quite demanding and selfish of them. It is purely your choice to decide whether you’d like to please them or not.

05/ They want you to abide by their rules

Relationships follow no rules. If your partner is determined to make you live according to them and has clearly established some self-made norms, then it’s a clear sign they are trying to control you. Neither do they have the right to make such rules nor do you have to follow them. It’s a matter of the hearts, not illogical rules and restrictions.

from LifeStyle